Dear Mrs L,

In a "normal" family, a mother loves and cares for her children, That loving, caring mother would get first dibs for the honor of hosting her daughter's wedding .

Your mother abdicated that responsibility, and left you to your grandmother's care, I give thanks you had a loving, caring grandmother who stepped in, long evening dresses under 100

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Even if you pay for the wedding wedding entirely yourself, I think it would be lovely for you to ask your dear grandmother to take the "MOB" role, She would be the very last person seated and she would sit either alone or with an escort in the front pew wedding stationery , Wedding invitations would be issued in her name:

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There is a compromise alternative, Invite her, but assign a "minder", Find some large, muscular, trustworthy relative (ideally a guy called "Tiny"), Ask "Tiny" to sit near Mom and keep a sharp eye on her, If Mom gets out of line, "Tiny" will drag her out bodily if necessary, Make sure that Mom knows she can only attend if she agrees to a minder,

Finally, consider confiding in your grandmother, She, of course, knows your mother and might offer you wise advice.

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