Wedding planning involves a seemingly endless list of the "big" things. But when it comes to wedding planning, plus size dresses the "little" things count.

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1. Stamps. Essential for invitations, thank-you notes and RSVPs. Don't hesitate to pre-stamp RSVPs, if you want those cards back on time. Some brides opt for wedding -themed stamps, but it's not essential. Better to have Santa stamps than no stamps at all.

2. Shoes. Don't forget these for your fitting. Having the exact shoes ensures that the dress dress is just the right length. It's also good to break them in a little so they don't hurt or squeak on your big day.

3. Bra and/or shapewear that you plan to wear under your dress . Also essential for the fitting.

4. Hanger for your dress. Your photographer is going to take photos of it before you put it on. You want a hanger that is photo-friendly. Joan Crawford had a point.

5. Visit your dentist. Get a proper cleaning a few weeks before the wedding. You might also opt for professional whitening.

6. Visit your eye doctor. If you wear eyeglasses and you're not used to wearing contact lenses, be sure to get a few months of practice. The aisle is not a good place for a "lost contact" moment.

7. Food for the bridal party. The only thing worse than a bridezilla is a hungry bridezilla. You can buy sandwiches or snacks ahead of time, or have something delivered.

8. Card and/or gifts for parents. Most people remember to get something for the bridesmaids , but it's just as important to get something for your parents, 2011 summer dresses 2011 summer dresses to show that you appreciate them. Also think about grandparents, godparents, or anyone who was pivotal in planning your day.

9. Tissues/handkerchief. Tuck it discreetly into your bouquet or have your maid of honor hold them. Flowers are not effective for wiping snot off your face.

10. Wedding emergency kit. Include spare makeup, ruched dress black cocktail dress black cocktail dress cheap wedding dress cheap wedding dress bobby pins and safety pins for wardrobe malfunctions. (See prior post).

11. Directions, signs and ushers so that guests don't get lost. Include specific directions in your invites, but also consider signs or outdoor ushers if your venue is large and has multiple entrances. You don't want Aunt Mabel walking down the aisle the same time you are.

12. Reserved seating. Be sure to tell family members if you are giving them special seating. Let the usher or coordinator know.

13. Cash for tips. Some will add a charge for this. Typically you will need to tip the hairdresser, make-up artist and valet.

14. DJ guidelines. Give them a short "must play" list, and a longer list of songs you also enjoy, to give them artistic freedom. The best DJs notice how the crowd responds. If you passionately hate the "Electric Slide," let the DJ know. (See prior posts.)

15. Photographer guidelines. It helps a photographer to have a list of photos that are high priority.

16. The rings. There is a reason "forgetting the rings" is a cliche. They are small enough to overlook. Give the responsibility to someone who won't forget.

17. A properly packed overnight bag. Your bridesmaids might pack you 30 pairs of lingerie discount designer wedding dresses , browse hundreds of beautiful cheap wedding dresses and find the perfect fit for you! studio 17 prom dresses studio 17 prom dresses but forget a pair of regular shoes. No one wants to wear bridal heels to breakfast.

18. A (tentative) schedule for the day of the wedding. You don't have to time it by the exact second, but a schedule will keep things on track.

19. Communication. Let everyone know what you plan. Relatives need to know if they should stay after the ceremony for photos, or if you're breaking with expected traditions.

20. Your health. This really isn't a "little" thing, but it often gets overlooked in favor of silly details. Get plenty of sleep and exercise. No bride should get sick on her wedding day.